Frequently Asked Questions


Where should I stay?

Several people are staying at The Windmill in Clapham. There isn’t an official hotel and I wasn’t able to reserve a block of rooms there but if you want to stay with others who are traveling from the U.S. (including my family), that’s where they’ll be. I’ve also put together some other local recommendations and have made suggestions for where you might also consider if you’re looking to be more central.

See my accommodation suggestions

Why Balham and what is there to do there?

Why Balham, you ask? Because it’s the best…it’s also where I live! One of the reasons I decided to have a party is because I want to share the city I love with the people I love. Balham has been my home for the last 4 years and I can’t wait for you to see it!

Tell me more about Balham

With all these events, will I have time to do other things?

For sure! I’m trying to only plan things for a few hours a day allowing you to explore as you desire before or after.

Do I have to attend all the events?

Nope. They’re completely optional for you to opt in or out of. Some will have a cost associated with them, though, and as I get a rough idea of attendees for each event, I will be able to give you more details around the costs.

Will you be offended if I can’t attend anything?

Absolutely not! I’ve invited you because you’re an important person in my life and I want you to know that. But I completely understand the costs and stress of travel and that you may have your 2025 vacation time allotted elsewhere. That’s totally fine!

Wondering about something else?

You might have questions, I might have answers.

Just send me an email or text. Or you can use this form.